The corset can do so many wonderful things for women these days. It will hold you in and boost you up for an amazing appearance. The corset can give any size bust sexy cleavage. They look and feel great. A corset can make any woman feel sexy while she is wearing one. This garment will give you the perfect silhouette. For those ladies who cannot stand to look at their mid section this is the piece for you. It will hide anything you have under there and make you look full busted and trim wasted. Today you can wear a corset as the main attraction itself. It can be worn with slacks, jeans, or skirts. Corsets come in a variety of fabric and pattern designs. There are enough color designs to fill a crayon box. There is a corset for every occasion and outfit to make girl feel like a goddess. There are also those little naughty corsets that you can see straight through but make you feel covered for those more intimate nights. There is nothing sexier than a shear corset worn with a garter and stockings.

The most important thing about the bustier is that it is a bra with a torso built into it. Even women with the largest of breasts will be held securely in place. You will not have to worry that everyday movements will force your top down and not support you or fall out of it. The bustier can even be purchased with or with out boning or lacing. Many bustiers have back lacing and offer buttons or hooks in the front for convenience. You can wear this incredible lingerie under all strapless outfits. You will know that you look great and feel awesome. This is a sexy intimate item, a dazzling outerwear piece, and all of the above wrapped into a sweet package. For a sexy, easy, and comfortable bustier for all day wear look for a fabric that is silky and/or satin. This will feel good on the skin and still look great after work hours with a sexy outfit. Silks and satins can also be combined with lace for that shear look with out being close to your most sensitive parts that might be irritating.

The Baby Doll is a short nightgown with formed cups with a loose fitting skirt. Some come with their own matching panties or you can purchase them separately. They may also have many adornments such as bows, lace or ruffles. These are some of the most flattering pieces around. They hide all flaws and show your womanly figure with out reveling too much. Most of the sexier types are made of chiffon or sheer cloth or mesh.. They do come in other fabrics such as silk, satin and synthetic blends for a more versatile function. When buying that perfect Baby Doll lingerie remember to buy what makes you feel sexy. If you feel more comfortable go with bright or darker colors. Choose a length that works for you. It is about you feeling sexy to yourself.

The chemise is a slip like garment that has spaghetti type straps to hold it on the shoulders. It can be worn under dresses, skirts, and/or used as intimate apparel. Chemises come in an array of fabric types, colors, and designs. Some common types of chemises as lingerie are crushed velvet, silk, satin, lace, and mesh. You can have anything from solid colors that can range from bold, pastel, to earth tones. There are also two-toned chemises that have an array of color displays as well. What ever you decide to go with you can bet your will look fabulous and sexy.

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The Lingerie Handbook

Rebecca Apsan is the lingerie evangelist. She knows that intimate apparel has the power to transform. That the right bra affects not only look, but outlook. That sexy silk or lace are feminine armor, offering a soft layer of protection against life’s vicissitudes. Her New York City store, La Petite Coquette, draws shoppers from around the world—and not just the celebrities who swear by it. New York Magazine sings her praises as “the best bra-fitter in the country”; so does Lucky. The Wall Street Journal wrote up her role in catapulting Hanky-Panky thongs onto every well-dressed woman’s must-have list—on their front page! She provided all the intimate apparel for Sex and the City. And now Rebecca Apsan is ready to divulge thirty years of wisdom and insider information about how underclothes can make the woman.

For a world where 85% of women are wearing the wrong size bra, The Lingerie Handbook is a complete tops-to-bottoms guide to bras, panties, slips, sleepwear shapewear, stockings, teddies, camisoles, and accessories. There’s the how-to on proper fit, including before-and-after photographs. Guides to matching the right underwear to different outfits. (T-shirts, jersey dresses, white pants, strapless gowns? No problem!) Straightforward advice on shopping, cleaning, organizing, and storing. But inspiration, too: how to cure body-image hang-ups by finding the right undergarments. And romance: how to find your own inner flirt, develop a unique style, and, when the occasion is right, how to dress to undress.

See the Lingerie Handbook details.

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How to choose what lingerie to get for her
(But also what to get for him or even yourself)

So, you want to purchase some lingerie, but you don’t know where to start. Lingerie can be one of the most romantic, intimate gifts you can give, especially on that extra special occasion. However, it’s only romantic if you think about the woman you’re getting it for. Giving the wrong lingerie can make her feel embarrassed, insulted or just plain disgusted! This step-by-step guide will help you prevent these misunderstandings, and instead allow you to share the gift with her: perhaps more often than not.

Before you go any further, if you don’t know a bustier from a babydoll, check out our lingerie glossary.

Remember: The lingerie is NOT for you.

Like I said before, if you don’t think about her in the buying process, she may not like the gift. I know you think it’s for your pleasure, but then the gift would be for you and not for her. If your gal refuses to wear it, then it’s a waste of money, time, and you’ll most likely have to buy something else to make up for it. So, want to figure out something that you’ll both like? Follow these four easy steps:

1. What are you celebrating?

The gift needs to correlate with the occasion. If you’re giving it as a birthday or Christmas present, a silky robe or sexy gown would be more appropriate (especially if you’re opening up gifts around other people). A babydoll, camisole, chemise or teddy makes for a more intimate gift, and therefore, should be saved for occasions like Valentine’s Day or an anniversary.

Maybe you just want to add some excitement to your sex life. Or maybe you don’t have a reason at all. Whatever it is, you want to make sure it goes with her personality. If she’s more modest, I suggest checking out the babydolls or chemises. Or if she’s more sexually adventurous, you could try something in leather or vinyl. You could also try a corset and garter belt or try some role-playing with a sexy costume. (See How to Use Sexy Costumes).

2. How will it be worn?

It’s important to think about the purpose of the lingerie. Will it be worn just in the bedroom? Or will it be worn during the day under her clothes? She might be willing to wear something less comfortable for a rendezvous in the bedroom, but not all day at work. At work, something like a bra set might be nice or just a sexy pair of panties.

Don’t forget that sexy clothes are a perfect compliment to lingerie. They can be worn to a club or out for a night on the town.

3. Getting to know your lover — from a slightly different perspective.

In order to get the kind of lingerie that she truly wants, you’re going to have to investigate her underwear drawer or closet. You will be searching for her size, style and color preference — all of which will help you to make a more precise choice.

Part A: Size

You need to know the size of the lingerie you want to purchase. Start by finding her bras, and look at the tag. It will have a number and a letter, like 36D. Just so you know: The number refers to the measurement directly below the breasts. The letter represents cup size, which is the size of the breast itself (A’s are smaller than D’s).

Next, look for some other pieces of lingerie, like a chemise or a robe. These will usually be sized as small, medium, large, extra-large, etc. But some have numbers related to hip size. If this is the case, refer to the sizing chart below:

After you’ve gathered sizes from multiple items, choose the size that occurs most often. If you need more help, check out our size guide by clicking here.

Part B: Style

Now, look at the style of the lingerie or clothes. If all of her panties are briefs, she may not wear a thong (however, she may be looking to try something new). If she doesn’t wear leather or vinyl or things with animal prints, you should probably not start out with these kinds of items. Try introducing them gradually.

Part C: Color

Finally, note the color of the lingerie and clothes. This may seem like an insignificant detail, but to her it’s the icing on the cake. Some colors might look better on her than others. And even though, you may think you know her favorites, it never hurts to double check. (She may have only worn that bright orange outfit last month because it was Halloween.) If you’re buying lingerie for her to wear to work, think about how certain colors (like black) won’t go well under a light-colored outfit.

4. How much to spend?

Remember that cheap lingerie makes anyone feel cheap and may not make it through all the activities you’ve conjured up in your head. The good news is that high quality lingerie does not have to be expensive. Lingerie Diva offers a basic babydoll and panty set for about $20. You can also check out the Deal of the Week (found on the right side of the home page) for an even better bargain.

Now that you’re ready to make a decision, remember that you can’t go wrong with one of our featured products on the home page. Or you can sort any of our lingerie categories to find the most popular items.

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When owning lingerie, one of the most important things to remember is that you need to care for it properly. If you treat these delicate items the same way you treat a pair of old jogging shorts, that’s exactly what they’ll end up looking like. To keep your lingerie from looking like a rumpled, ripped up mess, Lingerie Diva recommends that you follow these guidelines. While they may take more time, these washing methods will extend the life of your lingerie — and extend the time you get to enjoy it.

Check Your Labels

The first thing you need to do is check the labels in your lingerie. Manufacturers know their product better than anyone else, so their advice should be taken first, and should be taken seriously. If it says dry clean only, there’s a reason for it.

No Instructions? Follow These:

If you already clipped out your label, or your manufacturers’ instructions aren’t clear, you can keep your lingerie clean and happy by following the advice below.

As a guideline, most lingerie (especially if it’s made of lace) should be hand washed in cold water with mild soap or a detergent made for hand washing, such as Woolite. Remember to fasten any snaps, clasps or buttons while you’re doing this to avoid any snagging or tearing of the material. Give it a good rinse when you’re done, and then let it hang dry. Never machine dry your lingerie, unless told otherwise.

If you have a lot of lingerie, hand washing may seem like an exhausting task. So, you can always try to wash your lingerie using your washing machine’s delicate cycle on cold (not warm!). Use a lingerie bag or small washing bag for your garments so they don’t get caught on anything during the cycle. And again, let your lingerie hang dry.

Dealing with Nylon

Nylon (used in most hosiery) is one of the materials that can be washed using the delicate cycle of your washing machine. It is also one that can be dried in the drier; however, make sure to add a dryer sheet to avoid static electricity. Otherwise, your pantyhose will stick to everything — and that’s never a good thing.

Cleaning Silk

Silk is in a league of its own when it comes to delicacy. This material is extremely sensitive to detergents, so make sure to use a mild soap or silk-specific wash instead. Then, let the lingerie sit in warm water for about five minutes, and rinse with cool water. (A teaspoon of vinegar added to the rinse can sometimes help it remove traces of soap.) Place the lingerie in a towel and keep it flat while it dries.

When it comes to silk, the fabric is fragile, so it’s important to follow these tips:

- Never scrub or wring silk
- Never wear silk in direct sunlight. (It fades easily.)
- Never clean just a spot or section of silk with water — clean the entire garment.
- Never spray perfume on silk

Love Thy Corset

Corsets can be an investment (sometimes worth hundreds of dollars), so you want to treat it as you would your grandmother’s china: with tender love and care. Lingerie Diva’s corsets are made with high-quality steel boning, so too much contact with water can cause it to rust. For the best results, it’s always good to have it dry cleaned by a professional. And even then, ask for it to be washed by hand.

However, to keep dry cleaning bills down, here are a few guidelines to keep your corset fresh and clean:

- Instead of washing your corset every time you wear it, use a damp cloth to clean its lining.
- Try wearing a thin camisole underneath it to prevent any excess perspiration that can dirty it.
- It’s always a good idea to treat your corset with a fabric protector before wearing it. That way if anything spills on it, it can easily be wiped off.

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Camisole

This is a must have for any woman’s wardrobe. Camisoles are the most essential and versatile item of clothing you can own. While typically considered an undergarment, camisoles can be used for just about anything. Use a solid camisole to layer with your favorite button up shirt, blazer or cardigan for work or school. Then when you get home you can throw on a pair of pajama pants and cuddle up to your sweetie on the couch. Or go with a lacy camisole to excite your sweetie in the bedroom. You can get camisoles in a variety of colors, patterns, and materials. Some have options like built-in bras, shelf bras, and adjustable straps for extra comfort and a better fit. Some also have lycra material that act as body shapers as well.

Baby Doll

The baby doll is a widely popular type of lingerie for women of all sizes. This style typically has a built-in bra or a bralette to create a high waist line that accentuates and draws attention to the bust and flows out from under the bust into a “skirt” downplaying the midsection. You can find baby dolls in a variety of sheer and solid materials for sleep or play. Baby dolls go great with matching panties or shorts. This style is typically very loose and comfortable for around the house wear. This style works particularly well for apples

Chemise

Like the camisole the chemise is essentially a loose fitting undershirt. The chemise mimics the style of the baby doll but tends to be less fitted in the bust and flows straight down without a defining waistline. Chemises tend to be sheer and light in fabric, although they can be found in solids and well. This style does well for pears and hourglass shapes

Corsets

Still widely used today, the corset style is the epitome of all intimate wear. And while some larger ladies think a corset is off limits… think again! Corsets are making their way into mainstream diva wear. Have fun with this style by adding sexy panties or garters with thigh high stockings. Corsets can be found in comfortable lycra material for a flattering and smoothing fit. Wear this style under your clothing to give that special someone a surprise or to feel sexy all day long. This style is great for apples and rectangle shapes

Body Suits or Teddy’s

This style is an incredibly sexy option for the Diva. Resembling a one piece bathing suit the teddy is generally very lacy or sheer in material. This style plays many roles. It can be used as a body shaper to create smooth lines under clothing. It is great for women that need additional support in the bust. For added excitement add garters and thigh high stockings, or cover up with a sheer night shirt to add some mystery. This style is great for apples and rectangle shapes

Body shapers

Body shapers are a must for Diva’s, particularly for evening and formal Wear. Body shapers come in a variety of styles. The Girdle style shapers cover the waist, butt and hips. Some girdle styles extend down to cover the thighs. Corset style shapers focus on the midsection. Full body shapers like the body suit resemble a one piece swim suit worn under the clothing for all over smoothing without any bulging spots. This style typically has a built in bra and needs to be fitted to the wearer’s bra size. Body shapers are miracle workers no matter where your trouble spots are.

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How to choose the shape of the bra?

The shape of the bar depends upon the neckline of your dress.

You want sexy and low-cut rounded neck? Choose the bra with cups resembling fruit basket. For example, a balconette underwired bra – it most open decolette. This brasserie is perfect for sheath dresses and tops – your breast looks naturally curvy and the bra fits any dress perfectly.

If your dress has a plunging neckline, select a bra with low decolette. Cups cut it a half-moon shape open the upper part of your breast making a very sexy effect. This bra perfectly fits a low squared decolette.

When choosing a ‘bold’ low-cut neckline, put on push-up bras and look like femme fatale. This sexy bra is very practical and makes it possible to wear open dresses. If you want to visually enlarge your breast, select a double-padded bra, in which the breasts are lifted and placed closer together to enhance the cleavage.

And, finally, if you are going to move heaven and earth and to try a dress with a plunging neckline, pick the most revealing bra. Owing to rounded cups and low decolette line, this bra would make a slashing effect. Cups would make your breasts look closer to each other, it would look very sexy.

What fabric should be selected for sexy lingerie?

Lace, embroidery, tulle, satin, organza… There is a wide variety of fabric available for sexy lingerie. How to make the right choice? Everything depends upon your taste and the effect you’d like to achieve. Lace-decorated satin looks very sexy. Tulle lingerie with embroidery is not only sexy but has a retro flair.

Type of fabric should be selected with care; you should keep you figure in mind. Satin visually adds pounds. There is nothing more feminine and delicates as lace or intricate embroidery.

Then to achieve the desired effect you have to pick a right model which would add you beauty and charm. Don’t be afraid to combine different fabrics. Say, what a wonderful set of lacy bra and string with several small satin inlays.

Girdle – an essential detail of sexy lingerie

A symbol of sexuality, the girdle, is not mandatory nowadays. But if you like it, wear it to finish the look. The color of your girdle must match the color of your panties. Trimming with embroidery or bows is crucial. Try to combine different fabrics, for example, satin and tulle. To avoid embarrassing situations, be sure that straps are not seen when you sit.

But if you don’t like girdles but opt to wear a skin-tight skirt and to show your silken ankles, pick the so called stay-ups. They are not so revealing but very provocative and at the same time easy to wear.

Sexy lingerie fits any figure

It often occurs that a girl who dislikes her figure puts her sexy lingerie out of sight to the drawer. But alluring lingerie, if properly chosen, fits any figure.

If you have shapely breasts, slender waist and well-rounded buns, low-cut bra with boyshirts would fit perfectly. Shirts visibly reduce volume. Choose black or dark violet color.

If you are plump, don’t be afraid of wearing lacy balconette. To achieve the desired effect, pick a chic top. Together with loose boyshirts this bra would look very seductive. But if you want to put on a clinging dress and hide your tummy, then choose a form-fitting bustier, a corset reaching the waist. Well tight it will subtly emphasize your waist and mask everything you want to hide.

If you are slender and petite, try a push-up bra and string. Then you may put on a smart low-necked dress and shoot everyone dead.

What color to choose?

The most fascinating lingerie colors are black and red. Black is more versatile: it fits everything perfectly.

Dark violet, chocolate, dark blue – these are popular choices in sexy lingerie. White color can not make your look less sensual but adds a bit of chastity to it.

Remember: to look sexy, you have to perfectly match top with bottom. Pink strings completely disagrees with blue brasserie. But all the while you may choose accessories of different color – stockings, ornaments, feathers. Everything is perfect for you sexual image. Sensuality is always beautiful.

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